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‘It was crazy being on the stage at Wembley’

Harriet is one of our amazing mentors. Last month, she won our competition to see Arcade Fire perform at Wembley. She blogs about what it was like to get a touch tour of the Wembley stage and she shares how the experience has got her thinking about a career in the music industry.

I’ve always been a great fan of festivals and concerts. I attended Glastonbury in 2016 and saw artists such as Rag’n’Bone Man, Glass Animals, alt-J – I could go on. I’m already planning to go to “Rize” – this summer and am especially excited to see Bastille for the first time! Music is important to me as I’m hearing impaired too but can stream music through my hearing aid, and I think because of my lack of sight, it’s a whole new sense. It’s so nice having the escape after a bad day of just closing my eyes and switching off. Seeing Arcade Fire especially was so special because I’m struggling with A-levels at the minute and really wanted to do something nice.

‘Getting to the venue was hectic’

My mum and I spent the majority of the time rushing across the unknown abyss of North West London and panicked that we’d ended up in the wrong place, only to turn around and see the arena right next to the hill we’d just spent 15 minutes trying to defeat! My heart is beating right now just thinking about it.

‘It was a crazy experience actually being on the stage’

When we finally arrived, we met up with my cousins and Megan, the mentor co-ordinator for LOOK. We were given a tour of the stage from Arcade Fire’s very own tour manager! It was a crazy experience actually being on the stage – it felt so small: the instruments were so close together that I thought I’d knock something over or fall off the stage. We were also shown all the visual graphics and lighting, and this really enhanced the experience as I’d never quite appreciated the extent of work or artistry that went into each song. The technicians were literally performers themselves as they could play every light in time with the beat. The tour manager must have really been studying the night before as he knew all the ins-and-outs of every aspect of the arena, from the equipment to staff. But to have a job like that – following the band to every venue, talking to fans, enthusing about music – must be fantastic!

‘the floor literally shakes with every bass beat’

The music itself, I can’t even begin to describe. Seeing a live show is totally different to listening to it on your phone – the floor literally shakes with every bass beat, everyone around you loves the same music, and all around you – dad-dancing…imagine! I obviously didn’t know every single word to Arcade Fire’s many songs, but even so – it couldn’t stop anyone from enjoying the atmosphere.

‘I’ve always wanted to do something creative’

I have been so inspired by this one experience – it’s given me more insight into things I never knew before, and I’ve even started looking into a future career maybe in the music industry. I’ve always wanted to do something creative and this really opened my eyes to the extent of opportunities out there, and how perhaps any challenges instigated by my sight loss can be worked around. So, despite my partial sight, I don’t let it stop me – if you are visually impaired yourself, don’t feel discouraged. Just because you may be registered “disabled” it doesn’t ever mean you should feel you can’t enjoy things that other people do. At the end of the day, enjoy what you do have! When opportunities present themselves to you, take them. I’m not a fan of corny stuff and I’m cringing slightly now but I honestly believe music is a means of communication – it uncovers things that we may miss in everyday life, and I think it brings people together. Don’t allow any lack of confidence to stop you from enjoying things! If anything, challenge any doubts you or your peers might have and prove yourself to be resilient and determined.

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